Originally Posted by Olivia-Grace

Im just taking a guess that nyour from the UK but i may be wrong . The thing is here ..after reading this i did take into consideration your age ...this guy your talking about should rally have a car and presumably a decent job im guessing just by your age he is a few years older as most 25 year olds i know i did and most of my girlfriends at that age would date a guy a couple of years older or one or two ..which should make him nearing thirty . If hes decent or has anything about him he should have called you by now and indeed after the first time you met and asked you on a "proper date" not a date to a party or where lots of people are say for a meal or whatever and a glass of wine or a nice pub not parties or somewhere he has the oportunity for a wquick move in .. I think you need to gain some confidence try a new outfit or hairstyle ..and stop letting this guy put you in a position where he can "make out" with you . If i wasnt happy with the first date or his behaviour i really wouldnt see a guy again and he should have the confidence to take you out properly on a nice date and call round for you and do the same again ..if you have these worrying questions about this or need to ask a guy i would just just trust your own instinct and say to yourself ..this guy *aint Kosher* and sounds like he lacks confidence .if hes just come out of a long term relationship theres no reason he wouldnt want another girlfriend as all woman are different ..dosent make you the same as her but there is the chance he needs to chill and take stock ...