all good advice and I thank you all.

I think it's all about the methods you mentioned, getting
together with my parents more often maybe if it was out
to dinner together. Something where we can all really talk
and they can get to know each other.

I'm more about her just being comfortable in ANY situation
though, so I'll try some things, try inviting friends over or
seeing if we can double dinner date with some nice friends
of mine. we'll see what happens..

I'm with you Keridan, my wife is sweet, fun and lovable too, but
no one would ever know it since she can be so shy to everyone
but ME and her own Family.