So i guess the lesson here is, guys, if you are young, assume we will all be "Mothers" and try to protect bit like the father standing there with a baseball bat on the first date.

Of course, if we are mature, then we should know the score in that regard but warning are welcomed in my instance, so thank you Catherine.

I'm safe, he's a cop, know where he works to, so do my family, no flys on me...

But, long distance can mean "interstate" only a hop and a skip by plane but sooo far away.

Still difficult.. So work with the trust, once established and add the excitement on-going to keep the flame alive is the best advice i can offer in that regard.