|Yes ..i do agree Alvin , that men tend to respond to visuals ..but i beg to differ on women responding to what they hear or feel , that may be true of *some* women but certainly not all ...i am a respond to visuals woman ...in many different ways regarding sex . Of course we do respond to what we hear and feel but i think many women are now wizing up *Not* to respond so much to what we hear , as words are just words and it is "actions" that count !! . Us women like a bit of action!!....not just in the bedroom also out in his general ways ...fine for him to say , yes of *COURSE* i love you but many men thing ...oh il say it and as long as i say it shel be just fine !!. Nice though , if they mean it .

Visuals ??? some women keep the eyes open during lovemaking and will only make love in daylight or with the lights ON , others will only make love in the dark or dimly lighted room ...and some close the eyes ...we are all different .

Yes of course men love foreplay and i would recommend at least one hour of oral sex for the male or at least however long he wishes to last before other ways of lovemaking . Also important the woman has lots of time with foreplay and of course this need not be sexual , thats part of it but other exciting things leading up to it ...it really is worth that effort ....