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First of al Ric can we just get rid of the "Myth" of one night stands . I was thirty six years old when i lost my virginity to i gy i truely did love. Unfortunately i found out via a call from his wife he was married , I hardly think i was a "one night stand " yes true i did have a slightly romantic notion of husband taking virginity ect ...and i thought this gy i met while he was working here was the "one ) nothing wrong with morals is there ??? ,.
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I don't think it's a Myth. Women put the "trust" factor in men way to often and it's important therefore as you have stated, and i agree, ensure you use a Condom.
I was not referring to your thread regarding what happened persay, but agreeing that we have to be safe and sure.
How do you know a man? We don't until we "get to know him" and time is an essense. So again, i am agreeing with you if you want to go without the Condom and your in a committed relationship and want to be worry free, do you then get a blood test. Would you need any other tests if you were being protective prior, with a condom? On you personally that is, or once you no longer have used one and something arises that makes you wary and therefore check it out...
Again love, just saying if you want to go of using a Condom with a man...
What tests would you want the man to get then, in order for him to prove that you will be safe? That may be more pertinent.
Point being, even women with high morals make an error of judgement and it's fantastic that you can post this stuff to make an awareness..
As for one night stands, i certainly am a lucky lady as whilst i am not into them, i have had several relationships, and a marriage, i don't disagree with them, they happen, i just don't see the necessity to give for a night just for the hell of it, much better with a fair wack of lust involved...