I would like to make a comment on this Paul. Im a woman posting from the UK . The tree good things a woman needs to get a decent guy, i would disagree. Certainly, here in England if you go in any town in any City ...the majority of women (English) women , could only be described as appalling dressers, with no sense of STYLE or CLASS . Usually this is down to the family - the mothers and the fathers, poor working class backgrounds, unmarried mothers or single mothers at 14 or 15. When they had those children they were dressing in cheap clothes , usually walking around in below zero temp ...in the middle of winter with bright red legs ..no stockings with shoes , high heels and mini skirts and cut away tops with no jackets or coats on . They survive on sausage and chips , all day, every day ...becuse although they can afford food they would rather go to clubs and drink and leave thier kids with baby sitter . They meet a guy of equal looks and ways and produce kids who grow up to make thier parents grandmothers 14 years after they have given birth ...and so it goes on down the gernerations . My point, these girls are unattractive , like thier mothers and grandmothers before them ,,,the decent guy is the guy that if they are luck will marry them after they have had several kids . What do i think is beauty for a woman ?...great bone structure , good high cheekbones, style and class , and MORALS ...because thats what will make her different from all of the others in todays superficial world ...easy come easy go, easy to get, i want , i want . Elegance ...you carnt buy elegance , either she has it or she dosent . A woman who will invest in quality handbag, shoes ect even if her outfit dosent cost a million dollars , good manicure , french manicure not long talons , well applied cosmetics, not too much , quality perfume , only a spritz not reeking of cheap scent,knowing how to walk in high heels of 6 inchs or so , knowing how to cross her ankles when she sits ...knowing how to behave in public , around men ..not drunk ect ..a lovely smile..a knowledge of cookery (basic) at least ...taking pride in her home ...and a little education . But a man NEVER wants his wife or girlfriend to be smarter than him , even if she is , dont show it
...there are many things that make a woman special and differnt from the rest of the sheep ...and its those things that will find her a decent guy or husband ...phew ...what a long post ..