First of these is foreplay. Rushing to sex and bypassing foreplay is like trying to play golf in an overgrown lawn. It's very awkward. With women, it's one of the most uncomplimentary things that could ever happen to them. In the game of sex, especially with women, preparation is everything. Anything you can do to seduce her imagination and heighten her senses is always most welcome. So many men, in a fit of passion, often run through foreplay and hope for mind-blowing sex only to get the results they had not quite hoped for.